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Saturday, September 27, 2008

Very productive day today!

Well, I did more today then I thought I would. Cletus and I went to his cousins house to pick up a freezer. I hope to put at least one deer in there this year. It would be my first, and would be very exciting for me!!! I'm sorry to all you animal lovers, but I love hunting. Only been once so far, and I can't wait to do it again!!! Also, a while back, we got some raspberry bush seedlings. They sat in the little plastic pot for...oh...about a month I think. Today, I finally got them planted! Yay!



And one of them actually has berries on it!!! I hope they live through the winter though. I know it's awfully late in the season. I'm going to have to keep them covered after the first frost...we'll see if I have more of a green thumb with outdoor plants then I do with indoor plants! lol



I went to a florist in town today to check it out. I found a really cool boutonniere for the guys...I hope it's ok!!! Plus, they're only $10 each...heck yeah! I found some really nice bouquets for me and the girls too, but that will take a little more thought I think. The boutonnieres look pretty "masculine" but they're still flowers, so that's why I like them so much. I think the guys would be better wearing these than...oh...say...lillies! hahahaaa

I also washed my car today! It's the first time in at least two years that I've washed the outside of my car. Mainly because I lived in an apartment complex for two years and didn't really feel comfortable walking across the parking lot, let alone washing my car in it. I couldn't justify taking it through a car wash either. Done it before and it got all kinds of scratches on it. I'd just rather do it myself.

Tomorrow is going to be crazy busy. Church at 10:15, baptism in Waterford at 2:00, Flint for my aunt & uncles wedding anniversary party from 4-7...yay! Then, we come home...and I go to BED!!!!!!

I will do my best to post about my Godson tomorrow...y'all might have to wait though! Have a good night.

~Peanut


"Nothing builds self-esteem and self-confidence like accomplishment."
-Thomas Carlyle

Ok, ok...

So I really suck at the daily updates lately...I'll have some stories this weekend though, that's for sure!!!

Up for telling:

1) Getting a freezer from Cletus' cousin
2) Me having a Godson
3) Me seeing my Godson get baptized...I'm very excited about this one!

Stay tuned!!!

~Peanut


"Any emotion, if it is sincere, is involuntary."
-Mark Twain

Friday, September 26, 2008

Yay!!!

We got the favors today! Woohoo!!! They're very pretty too. I'm excited about them!

Now, if only I could type today...what a crazy day it was. Couldn't talk straight, still can't type...I just want to crawl into bed with a good book and do nothing...it's been very entertaining.

~Peanut


"Humor is merely tragedy standing on its head with its pants torn."
-Irvin S. Cobb

Thursday, September 25, 2008

I just don't get it

Ok...I understand that there is more traffic on the roads at certain times during the day...but WHY do people insist on driving 10-15 mph UNDER THE SPEED limit??!!!? It's so annoying. I don't think I will ever understand it. Oh well.

Now...here's a solution for all the cities that are having budget issues. Instead of cutting the people that keep the citizens safe (ie: police, fire, etc.) why don't all the higher up yuppies take even a $.50 per hour pay cut. That's only on average $20 per week, or $80 per month. With as much as they make, I think that should be doable. If not, they're living way outside of their means...cutting police and firefighters is just plain stupid. Who am I though? Just some young 27 year old girl that watches all this crap happen on tv wishing people would open their eyes.

Thanks for listening.

~Peanut


"It is an unfortunate human failing that a full pocketbook often groans more loudly than an empty stomach."
-Franklin Delano Roosevelt

Monday, September 22, 2008

So, they called back

Yeah, David's actually called me back at about 3:20. The dress I'm looking for *of course* is not one of the ones on sale! GRRRR!!! Oh well.

~Peanut


"Whoever said money can't buy happiness simply didn't know where to go shopping."
-Bo Derek

Two gripes in one...

What's with all the secrecy??? I was on myspace the other day checking out some profiles of people I went to school with. I would say 7 out of 10 of them were private. I don't get it...what's to hide? Are people too 'party animal-ish' to have their profiles viewed by the general public? Now, I'm obviously not talking about 16-17 year olds. By all means...those SHOULD be private and monitored by parents. No, I'm talking people my age...mid to late 20's...and older. Are they afraid their boss might see what's going on and they might lose their job? Oh, and blogs being private? Come on...if you don't want people to read your blog, buy a diary. Ok, that's all on that subject.

Now...a co-worker's daughter is getting married next year. They went to David's Bridal this weekend and saw that a lot of the bridesmaid dresses were only $99. BONUS!!! So, since I'm at work right now, and can't leave the office for an hour long lunch, I called the store to ask if the particular dress I'm looking for is one of the ones on sale. Here's how the conversation went:

David's Girl: Thank you for calling David's Bridal would you like to make an appointment?
Peanut: *the girl said the greeting VERY fast* I'm sorry, I didn't hear you...
David's Girl: Would you like to make an appointment?
Peanut: Oh! No, I was just wondering if a particular dress is on sale right now.
David's Girl: Well, our sale ends today, would you like to make n appointment to come in?
Peanut: No, I just want to know if this dress is on sale.
David's Girl: I can put you down for an appointment if you'd like to come in and take a look around.
Peanut: No, I already have my gown, I'm looking at bridesmaid dresses right now, and I just want to know if this particular dress is on sale right now.
David's Girl: Well, the only discount your girls can get is the $20 off.
Peanut: Ok, so is there any way to find out if this particular dress is on sale...in the store?
David's Girl: Well, I can take your name and number and have someone call you back.
Peanut: That would be great!

So, I gave her my name, phone number and the dress number, then she practically hung up on me. How many times do you really have to ask a question before you get a straight answer??? Apparently more than I did...because they still haven't called and that was almost 2 hours ago...I could have been there, found the dress and been back to work 3 times by now. Oh well...they probably won't call me back. My co-worker will be up there getting her daughter fitted for a bridesmaid dress tonight so she's going to look for me. OYE!!!

~Peanut


"If the world were a logical place, men would ride side saddle."
-Rita Mae Brown

Saturday, September 20, 2008

Biggest DUH! of the weekend...

Ok...a little back story first. I bought my car back in 2001. It's getting a little old, but unfortunately, that has nothing to do with this weekends fiasco. Well, about 4 or 5 years ago, I spilled some pop on the console and it got down into the gears of the gear shifter. If it was cold out, I would sit for anywhere between 5 & 10 minutes trying to get my car out of park. It was extremely annoying, and severely pissed me off. Well, about a year after the spill happened, and after I had pretty much lost my patience with it, my brother helped me pull out the console, cleaned the living daylights out of the thing, put it back together, and lo-and-behold, I could get my car out of gear again!!!

Well, just recently (by recently I mean about a year ago), I went to get my oil changed and the shifter was sticking again. The guy at the oil change place "fixed" it for me, and I was good for oh, 8 months or so. Now, for those of you that don't know, there's an override right next to the shifter. Well, back in the day, my car got repossessed and the override "magically" appeared (I had no idea it was there)...that's how the repo man got my car. Well, every time the shifter would stick, I'd use an ink pen on the override to get my car out of gear.

Enter this weekend. Cletus and I took the console out of my car again and started cleaning things, and greasing the heck out of stuff too. All the while trying to figure out why the heck the car still wouldn't come out of park! We started thinking that maybe a fuse had blown or something, but we couldn't quite figure our where or what it would have been. Then, Cletus said "well honey, I think you're s.o.l. with this one". He went to put some stuff away, and I was ready to deal with using the ink pen every time I wanted to get my car out of park. Then...a light bulb went off. A fuse. An electrical item inside the shifter probably. The fuse that we thought had blown, just needed some electricity getting to it. Hm...I have my keys in my pocket...let's see what happens when I turn the key and try to take the car out of park. POOF!!! It worked. Yeah...usually the key actually has to be in the ignition to shift without using the override. Hence the reason the repo man couldn't get my car without it...DUH!!! I felt like an idiot!!! But now, my shifter works, and I don't have to use a pen anymore :-)

Anyhoo...Cletus and I get to see my mom, my sis, my absolutely adorable niece and some really cute kitties tomorrow!!!

Have a great weekend!

~Peanut


"When you look at your life, the greatest happiness's are family happiness's."
-Joyce Brothers

Thursday, September 18, 2008

There's no way...

There is absolutely no way I'm going to make it through the wedding without losing my composure...I've chosen the song that I'm going to dance with my dad, and Cletus and I have figured out our first dance. Now, whenever I hear either of those songs, I get really teary!!! The one for me and my dad more so, well...because I have a couple of things "up my sleeve" so to speak. I know he will really enjoy it, and that makes me very happy.

In addition to the music...any time I get online and look at my dress (which is actually in my mom's possession right now), the bridesmaid dresses, hair styles or ANYTHING that might be even remotely related, I get all excited. I get excited, and start thinking about how everything will look that day. Me, Cletus, the entire wedding party, the reception hall...I can't wait! We've got the major things done, now it's just details...

I just can't wait til the day that I can call myself his wife. The first lines on our wedding invitations say "Believing that Holy Matrimony is ordained by God, and in the spirit of Christian Joy..." I am so glad that he took me to church with him that day...I will never look back on it and regret it. The 'thing' that was missing in my life, is missing no more. The only way my life could possibly be any better, would be spending my life with him, and having his children...and that's all about to happen!!!

Yay!

~Peanut


"There is no such cozy combination as man and wife."
-Menander

Wednesday, September 17, 2008

Soooo...

Well, last night wasn't so bad. I didn't end up getting up in front of everyone like I thought I was going to. I don't know if I really will be speaking or not, but either way I'm ok with it. It was so good to see everyone last night though!!! A lot of people that sponsored last year were there, and there were about 15 candidates/Catechumens...I think...

We watched a video that had some interviews on it, and a little bit of the Easter Vigil from this year. I actually got teary watching it. The Easter Vigil was just amazing!!! That is one day that I don't think I will ever forget. There was just so much inside the church that night. It was very powerful. I can't wait to see it again in 09!

Anyhoo...I don't know if I'm making any sense right now, so I think I'm gonna go to bed...I'm pretty sleepy...

~Peanut


"Happiness is excitement that has found a settling down place. But there is always a little corner that keeps flapping around."
-E.L. Konigsburg

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

RCIA!

RCIA starts again tonight!!! I'm sponsoring someone this year. It'll be like the 'blind leading the blind' (thanks Jenn!!!), but I'm going to do my best. I know there are a lot of people I can ask questions if I can't answer "my" students questions. I'm also a little bit nervous though! The DRE has asked me to give my story to the participants! AHH!!! Me in front of a group of people???? I'll see how it goes.

Anyhoo...gotta get going soon!

~Peanut


"Every man has his own courage, and is betrayed because he seeks in himself the courage of other persons."
-Ralph Waldo Emerson

Thursday, September 11, 2008

Never Forget...

This will be my last post of the day today...

Today marks the 7 year anniversary of the attacks on the World Trade Center. God Bless all of the families that lost loved ones, and still fight back the tears. God Bless all of the people that lost lives that day in New York, at the Pentagon, and in Pennsylvania. God Bless our troops as they fight to keep this wonderful country free. God Bless all of us...

~Peanut


"Our country is not the only thing to which we owe our allegiance. It is also owed to justice and to humanity. Patriotism consists not in waving the flag, but in striving that our country shall be righteous as well as strong."
-James Bryce

Yay me!!!

Ok, so it's no big task for some people, but...

1) I managed to find a layout that I like
2) I managed to actually get the layout to work
3) After a few frustrating minutes of losing all my links, my counter, and my cool clock...I got them back
4) I didn't lose any hits on my counter :-)
5) I didn't blow up the world in the process.

What do you think of my new layout????

~Peanut


"There is no success but your own success."
-Leslie Grimutter

To boldly go...

Where a ton of bloggers have gone before! lol

I'm going to find a new layout. The blogger layouts are all boring, and I want something exciting on my page!!! Hopefully it doesn't throw everything out of whack.

edit: Unfortunately...it won't happen today...not enough time!

~Peanut


When discussing typing...
"I'm a hunt & pecker"
-Anonymous

Another novel idea...

This came from a fellow co-worker...

You know the pneumatic tube systems when you go through the drive through at the bank? How cool would it be to have those installed in office buildings to save employees from running all over the building?! Between that and the ability to teleport, a lot more work would get done!

Anyhoo...gotta run.

~Peanut


"Go for it now. The future is promised to no one."
-Wayne Dyer

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

So, I got to thinking....

A dangerous thing, I know!!! lol

Anyways...during work today, I got the strange desire to be able to teleport. It would be fantastic!!! I could be sitting at my desk and just say "V.P. Sales office", snap my fingers, and I'd be there! Or "Production Managers Office - *snap*" and done! It would be great. Although, if other people in the office were capable of this, I'm afraid that people would just pop into my cubicle and scare the living daylights out of me! Oh wait...they already do that...minus the scaring the daylights out of me. Would save tons of walking though...oh well!

Anyhoo...Cletus and I were out and about last night doing some shopping. We have a wedding to go to next week and I needed some new shoes. So, I got some sexy red heels! I'm very excited to wear them. I've never had red high heels like these!!! I also got a micro SD card for my phone. Let me just say, these things are friggin tiny...they aren't joking when they say MICRO!!! I got the adapter thingee too, so I don't have to upload all the photos, I can just put them right on my computer. And it only cost $7! BONUS! However...that thing comes out of the card slot on the phone like a friggin banshee...I almost lost it once already!

On wedding planning news...we ordered the favors, they should be in shortly. We're going to go to some florists and bakeries in the near future to get pricing and flavors taken care of. But...I ordered my shoes thinking I would love them...oh no...hated them. They were perfect when I saw them online, but when I got them...yuck!!! Oh well, we have a little over 8 months now. I can find the perfect pair still.

Gotta get back to work...late lunch break today...

~Peanut


"Decisions become easier when your will to please God outweighs your will to please the world."
-Anso Coetzer

Friday, September 5, 2008

It's been a week...

Since I moved into the house with Cletus, and I love it here! :-) My room is still a disaster, and so is the spare bedroom, but Cletus' room is just as clean as it ever was! Once I get everything somewhat organized, daily updates are much more likely. I don't really have time to post at work anymore, and now that there is 'evening internet access', I should be able to update on a more regular basis.

Work has been crazy...we have a new promotion running, and since I handle 3 of our 4 cities, I get the 'brunt of the blow' so to speak. That's ok though, it keeps me busy!!! And I like being busy. It makes the days go much faster. On the other hand...I don't like it cause it makes the days go much faster!!! lol I'm trying to plan a wedding here!!!

Anyhoo...I don't really have much to talk about other than the fact I'm happy Kwame is FINALLY *technically* out of office. Not officially until mid-month, but still...now Michigan can work on rebuilding the image we had before the former mayor of Detroit ruined it.

Have a good night all...

~Peanut


"I think we risk becoming the best informed society that has ever died of ignorance."
-Reuben Blades

Tuesday, September 2, 2008

What a weekend!!!

Ok...long weekend! It's a good thing too!

We got to leave work at 4:00 on Friday instead of 5, which was fantastic cause I had lots of packing and moving to do! When I got to the apt I started getting stuff together. Cletus headed over with his buddy, we loaded up mostly the big stuff and headed to the house. After that we went to dinner at Muldoon's...they have pretty good pizza! Saturday morning, we went back with 2 trucks thinking we should be able to get everything in one load...we were wrong...we were one box, and my cars trunk short! We had to go back for a second trip...oh well. Around 12:00, I handed my keys over to the property manager, gave my new address, and was officially moved out of the apartment!!! Yay!!! Once we got back to the house, Cletus and I focused on getting the living room and kitchen/dining room organized first since that's what you see first. I haven't really tried tackling my room other than getting my bed set up so I have some where to sleep! The spare room and my room are a mess pretty much (that shouldn't surprise some people), but Cletus' room is as clean as usual! lol

Monday, we went to the Renaissance Festival. We were there for about 5 hours, and we had a good time!!! There were some new shows this year (at least new to me) that were pretty good! One was Tartanic (www.tartanic.net), a bagpipe and drums show...they were fantastic, and Cletus got to get on stage! That's always entertaining....

Anyhoo...it was a long weekend, and I'm officially out of the apartment and into mine and Cletus' home :-) I love it there!! I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with him.

~Peanut


"The Constitution only guarantees the American people the right to pursue happiness. You have to catch it yourself."
-Benjamin Franklin

Thursday, August 28, 2008

I'M SO EXCITED!!! AND I JUST CAN'T HIDE IT!!!

I GOT MY RING BACK!!! YIPPEE!!! I got the call from Jared yesterday that my ring was ready to be picked up...I was STOKED!!! It's even more beautiful than I remember! I missed having it a lot!

My mom, sis and I got quite a bit moved to the house yesterday. There's at least 2 more full loads to take, along with the furniture, and I'll be all moved in! Yay! I can't wait.........

This morning started pretty well. I was in a good mood, great mood actually, but after about 4 hours...my mood went right down the drain. I was so tired all of a sudden, I just wanted to go home and crawl into bed...I'm so glad that I'm not dealing with the whole depression thing like I was dealing with about 6-7 years ago.

Now, onto the wedding planning stuff! *yay*
My dress - check
Church - check
Reception Hall - check
Photographer - check
DJ - check
Bridesmaid dresses - selected, not ordered yet
Centerpieces - kind of in progress
Invitations - check (and they're gorgeous)
Reception favors - picked out, just need to order
There are still a lot of little things to be done, but hey, we've got 8 1/2 months to go!!! I just can't wait to be able to put pics up!!!

~Peanut


"Success in marriage does not come merely through finding the right mate, but through being the right mate."
-Barnett R. Brickner

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Best Quote EVER!!!!!!!!

I was sitting with Cletus watching House last night...

A little background...Husband and wife are bed shopping. He liked the pillow top mattress, she liked the firmer one. One was $1,900, the other was $1,500 or something like that. The wife got a "911" page from her office and had to leave. She told her husband to get whichever one he wanted to get. Husband talked to House, House said to buy the one he wanted, but instead, the husband bought the one the wife wanted. A little later, the husband and wife are at home and are about to 'test out' the new mattress. The wife gets irritated that the husband bought the mattress that she wanted after specifically telling him to get the one he wanted.

Now to the good stuff...House needed to "think" so he went to lay down...at the mattress store where the husband was shopping for a new bed. The said a few things back and forth then the husband walks over to House and says:
"I want a water bed. I've always wanted a water bed. Something about being rocked to sleep on water."

Blank stares from House, no comments or anything.

So the husband says (and this is the best quote EVER!!!) "What? No mocking? Nothing about how a water bed is really a big vagina I want to crawl into?"

I was cracking up so hard!!! Cletus chuckled a little bit, but I thought it was absolutely hilarious!!!!!

~Peanut


"I took a deep breath and listened to the old bray of my heart. I am. I am. I am."
-Sylvia Plath

Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Time Off

Have you ever noticed how even if you take a vacation from work, you need a vacation as soon as you get back? I think the only time I've ever not had that feeling was when I went to Ireland with my mom. That week off was fantastic, and I wish I could do it again...

This past weekend, Cletus and I headed up to Kinde to celebrate his grandmother's 90th birthday! It was lots of fun, but as soon as we got back...I wanted another day off...when I got to work Monday morning, I was wishing I would have stayed in bed. I didn't sleep well Sunday night, ran late Monday morning, traffic sucked, and when I got to my desk...stuff was everywhere...crappy start. Then, I got a phone call from Jared. I thought they were going to tell me I could come pick up my ring, but I was sorely mistaken. They just called to "keep me in the loop" and let me know that when the home office got my ring, they discovered that 2 corners on the stone were chipped...hmm...isn't that the reason it got sent out anyways??? Oh well, nothing I can do about it but whine and complain! lol This Thursday will be the 3 week mark of them having my ring. They said it would take 2-3 weeks, and I'm thinking it will be more like 6. Good thing the wedding isn't anytime soon...

On a happier note, I'm watching my 4 year old niece and my almost 2 year old nephew today! They're so stinkin cute...I can't wait til I have my own! We played a lot this morning, watched some tv, had lunch, and now they're napping. Honestly, I think I need to take a nap too! hahahaa

Tomorrow, I get to move some furniture with my sister, and get to packing. This week is my last week in the apartment!!! Yay!!! I will be officially moved into the house that Cletus bought for us to start and keep our family :-)

Anyhoo...

~Peanut


"We did not change as we grew older; we just became more clearly ourselves."
-Lynn Hall

Friday, August 22, 2008

Amen....

I got this in an email from my mom. It's really a good read!!!


Noise Complaint at Luke AFB, AZ
Luke AFB is west of Phoenix and is rapidly being surrounded by civilization that complains about the noise from the base and its planes, forgetting that it was there long before they were. A certain lieutenant colonel at Luke AFB deserves a big pat on the back. Apparently, an individual who lives somewhere near Luke AFB wrote the local paper complaining about a group of F-16s that disturbed their day at the mall. When that individual read the response from a Luke AFB officer, it must have stung quite a bit.

The complaint: 'Question of the day for Luke Air Force Base: Whom do we thank for the morning air show? Last Wednesday, at precisely9:11 a.m, a tight formation of four F-16 jets made a low pass over Arrowhead Mall, continuing west over Bell Road at approximately 500 feet. Imagine our good fortune! Do the 'Tom Cruise-wannabes' feel we need this wake-up call, or were they trying to impress the cashiers at Mervyn's early bird special? Any response would be appreciated.'

The response: Regarding 'A wake-up call from Luke's jets' (Letters, Thursday): On June 15, at precisely 9:12 a.m., a perfectly timed four-ship fly-by of F-16s from the 63rd Fighter Squadron at Luke Air Force Base flew over the grave of Capt. Jeremy Fresques. Capt. Fresques was an Air Force officer who was previously stationed at Luke Air Force Base and was killed in Iraq on May 30, Memorial Day. At 9 a.m. on June 15, his family and friends gathered at Sunland Memorial Park in Sun City to mourn the loss of a husband, son and friend. Based on the letter writer's recount of the fly-by, and because of the jet noise, I'm sure you didn't hear the 21-gun salute, the playing of Taps, or my words to the widow and parents of Capt. Fresques as I gave them their son's flag on behalf of the President of the United States and all those veterans and servicemen and women who understand the sacrifices they have endured. A four-ship fly-by is a display of respect the Air Force gives to those who give their lives in defense of freedom. We are professional aviators and take our jobs seriously, and on June 15 what the letter writer witnessed was four officers lining up to pay their ultimate respects. The letter writer asks, 'Whom do we thank for the morning air show? The 56th Fighter Wing will make the call for you, and forward your thanks to the widow and parents of Capt. Fresques, and thank them for you, for it was in their honor that my pilots flew the most honorable formation of their lives. Only 2 defining forces have ever offered to die for you.....Jesus Christ and the American Soldier. One died for your soul and liberty; the other for your natural freedom.
(signed) Lt. Col. Grant L. Rosensteel, Jr. USAF

I think that says enough on it's own. God bless our troops.

~Peanut


"Courage is being scared to death, but saddling up anyway"
-John Wayne

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Patience vs. Tolerance

During our weekly meeting at work last week, we all got a lesson on patience vs. tolerance. A lot of people think they're very, very, VERY patient, when in reality, they're simply extremely tolerant of the situation.

Here's the difference...if there is an end goal that you would like to eventually reach, you are not being patient, you're being tolerant. Take away that end goal and then see how long you'll deal with it. Many, many people are not nearly as patient as they think they are. Take a minute to think of 5 or 10 times that you thought you were being patient. Now...was there an end goal that you had in mind? If the answer is yes, then you were just being tolerant...it's pretty eye opening!!!

Enter my situation...my engagement ring has been gone now since August 7th. I feel naked without it!!! lol I have temporarily replaced it with another ring of mine, but it's not the same...and alas, I have to wait up to 3 weeks to get it back. Am I being patient or tolerant??? I'd like to think I'm being patient, but since there is an end goal of getting my friggin ring back, I guess I'm just being tolerant!!! lol

Anyhoo...back to work I go...

~Peanut


"Adopt the pace of nature: her secret is patience."
-Ralph Waldo Emerson

Friday, August 15, 2008

Peanut on...

...Driving...
Ok, so the other day there was a possibility that I would have to pick my niece up from daycare. I would have had to leave work early (no biggie cause I was over on my time already), and I'd have the chance to see where my mom and sis are living. Well, I left work at 4, did what I needed to, then got a phone call from my mom. She was going to pick up the munchkin. I decided that since I had already left work, and was practically on the expressway already, I'd just head out that way. Well...apparently, some dude in a Saturn Vue thought he was the absolute most important person on the road at the time and made it absolutely impossible to miss! This guy, right after a construction zone, whipped out behind someone in the left lane. Now, I was in the center lane and there was still a line of traffic in the right lane. This guy got right up on the bumper of the car in front of him, flashed his lights then slowed up a little until he was about 4' away instead of 2'. Gunned it again flashing lights and all. This happened 2 or 3 times before there was not quite enough room for him to squeeze between me and the car in front of me. Had I not been paying attention, he WOULD HAVE taken off my bumper, and sent me cruising into the far right lane where there was still TONS of traffic. I hit my brakes, honked at him, said a few choice words under my breath, and stuck my hand out the window with one particular finger proudly extended. By this time this guy was...I'm not exaggerating...100 yards in front of everyone. Well, I stayed right where I was and somehow wound up in front of this idiot again. He was all the way in the left lane doing about 85-90, changed lanes behind me all the way to the right. My response??? I got in front of him :-D doing the same speed I was before which was about 75. He had to hit is brakes so hard that his bumper was about 10" from the ground...moron... Now, I don't normally have road rage. Yes, I get frustrated and I might yell some not-so-nice things when I get that way, but I RARELY ever really retaliate on another driver. This guy however, got me so mad that I felt I needed to. I have no idea why he was in such a hurry...and now that I think about it, it's kinda funny!

...Being sick...
Ok, I went to the doctor's office on Wednesday and still haven't heard anything back. I don't know what was wrong with me, but I feel fine now. I'm not the type of person to stay home when I'm sick anyways. I would have to be on my death bed, or not able to lift my own head in order for me to stay home. Doctors like that because that's what keeps them in business! lol

...Cedar Point...
Yes. That magical place full of metal, wood, speed, cotton candy and excitement. I will be there tomorrow with both of my sisters, Cletus and 2 of my nieces. I CAN'T WAIT!!!!!! I really hope we can get on Maverick again this year. That ride kicks some serious butt!

...The Olympics...
Ok...what's up with this judging crap in women's gymnastics??? And the fact that it's so incredibly obvious that HALF the Chinese team is under age. Yeah, mistake my butt...they did it on purpose. The younger girls have fewer life experiences and may not really realize what a HUGE deal the Olympics really are! Oh well, who am I...just a spectator. I'm very proud that Nastia Liukin and Shawn Johnson grabbed gold and silver for the US though! Track and field starts today (or started last night), and I'm pretty anxious to watch that...Michael Phelps is well on his way to being the best athlete in Olympic history. He's already regarded as the best athlete ever...this will just seal the deal!

Anyhoo...lunch is over, I have to get back to work.

~Peanut


"The first and greatest victory is to conquer yourself; to be conquered by yourself is of all things most shameful and vile."
-Plato

Wednesday, August 13, 2008

Quickie Update...

So, I've been feeling like crap for the last few days. I got online to check out all the possibilities: mono, mumps, strep, and tonsillitis. Today, I went to the doctor to see what the heck was going on. They did a "rapid-strep" throat culture and it came back negative. So that is getting sent off for "normal" strep testing. They also took some blood and they'll be testing that for other fun stuff...

Oh well, I'll be fine! :-) I should have a rather entertaining update within a few days...

~Peanut


"A good laugh and a long sleep are the best cures in the doctor's book."
-Irish Proverb

Monday, August 11, 2008

Things that slipped through the proverbial catch up "crack"...

Ok, I missed a couple of things on the "catch up" post yesterday.

Last Thursday, I took my ring in to Jared to get the stone tightened...again. Cletus and I haven't even been engaged for a year and I've had to get it tightened 3 times. This time, I walked in and said "I don't know if there's something wrong with the setting or the stone itself, but this is the 3rd time I've had to come in and get the stone tightened on this." The lady took it and started checking it out. She wrote up a ticket for me, and since I got there at 7:30 pm, I wouldn't be able to pick it up til noon on Friday. She didn't want the guy to rush through it, so I said no biggie. I was REALLY bummed that I had to go that long without it though. Little did I know...

The next day rolls around and I make arrangements to take a super long lunch so that I can go get my ring, and attempt to break even on my time situation at work. Well...I got a phone call from the lady at Jared at about 11:15 am. She told me that after looking at the ring and the diamond closer, they would have to send it back to the home office to be repaired because apparently 2 corners on the stone were chipped!!! WHAT??? Then she said it could take 3 weeks. 3 WEEKS!!! Ok, fine. I guess I can deal with that. Another lady called me a little later requesting the certification for the diamond because she knew they would need it. I sent a text message to Cletus to ask him to pretty please bring it to work so I can make a copy and fax it, or have him take it directly to the store. When I gave him all the details, he said he would go to the store instead of faxing because he wanted some kind of credit for them giving him a "crappy" stone. I told him to be prepared for them to say no because there's no way for them to prove if it was chipped before being set. He wound up getting a rush put on the order, but no credit of any sort. Now, I might only have to wait 2 weeks for it to come back. :-( I miss my ring!!!

This weekend there was plenty of Olympic action being watched! Sunday was definitely the lazy day of the weekend...all we did really was watch the Olympics and screw around on our computers! We saw the men's and women's prelims for gymnastics, watched some diving, volleyball, biking, an we watched Michael Phelps kick some serious arse!!! It was a good weekend.

Ok...back to work time for me!

~Peanut


"Laziness is nothing more than the habit of resting before you get tired."
-Jules Renard

Sunday, August 10, 2008

True catch up...

Ok, here's the rest of what's been going on for the last month and 3 days...

The week of July 7th, there wasn't a whole lot going on. Just work and getting the apartment ready for my PartyLite show. Nothing exciting. On Sunday, July 13th, I went to David's with my two sisters, my mom and my adorable niece. We tried on some bridesmaid dresses and I pretty much decided which one I'm going to have my girls wear. I can't wait to see it in my color!!! That same day, I had my PartyLite show. My cousin, who was about 8 1/2 months pregnant at the time, was the consultant. Let me just say, she is an adorable pregnant woman. Most of us had a good time at the party...but my poor niece provided some unexpected "entertainment". She wasn't feeling the greatest for whatever reason, and about half way through the show, got up to get a drink. Her cup was between my sister-who was sitting on my couch-and myself-I was sitting on the love seat. She picked up her cup, took a sip, and almost immediately projectile vomited. I felt so bad for her, and we were all so shocked that no one really responded. My sister and I looked at each other thinking "where did that come from??" Then, she did it again. We all scrambled to get towels etc. I grabbed one, ran back into the living room, and quickly walked her to the bathroom with the towel at her mouth. On the way to the bathroom, she threw up again...and again once we actually got to the bathroom. I felt absolutely terrible for her, and to this day, don't know how I managed to keep MY stomach in check! While my sis and I got her somewhat cleaned up and changed her clothes, she looked at me and said "I feel better now". I almost lost it...

The next day, Cletus and I met with our DJ to finalize some details and get some questions answered. We will be meeting with him again in...oh...April probably. We've got some good stuff planned!!! :-)

July 15th was another meeting with our priest. It was fairly short and sweet. Just discussing some of our "pre-marital requirements". It's all under control now.

The weekend of July 19th and 20th was fuuuuuuuul of fun!!! A girlfriend, her fiance and I took a friend of ours out to Canada to celebrate her birthday on the 19th. It was a RIOT!!! I'm not going to go into details, but lets just say...I'm glad we had a designated driver! I got home around 2 am I think, and had to be up again at 5. I was still feeling pretty good that morning. Cletus and I rode with Hoopa to Findlay on Sunday to watch Cletus' nephew get baptized.

The next 2 weeks had me at the dentist, and Cletus and I with our counselor (another pre-marital requirement). July 24th was my above mentioned girlfriends bachelorette party, and Saturday was her wedding!!! On the 31st, I was back at the dentist...and then...

August 2, the bash! Cletus had a housewarming party and it was soooooo much fun!!! We had about 20 people over the course of the night. Plenty of drinking, some good food, and many great friends! My maid of honor, my matron of honor, and 2 of my bridesmaids were there! I was very excited to get all of them together. :-) The party went from 4 til about midnight, and we actually kind of made one unexpected friend thanks to Poison Ivy. Katsu was there, Barbie was there, and we met a neighbor that lives a couple houses down...it...was...strange...

On August 3rd, I went to visit a friend of mine in the hospital. He had surgery, and I wanted to "check up" on him. He was doing well, and I got to see him again on the 7th at a dinner that we had for some of the candidates and catechumens that completed the RCIA program at church. He's doing well, and is recovering. There are many people praying for him, and I'm sure he'll have a full, speedy recovery.

I've been slowly moving out of the apartment and into the house, and I can't wait til the end of this month cause I will be completely moved in!!! That's about it for now, more to come!

~Peanut


"If you want to be happy, be."
-Leo Tolstoy

Wednesday, August 6, 2008

The time that got away...

Ok ok...so I really suck at the daily updates lately!! lol I'm going to get back to that very soon...work has been slightly crazier than before, which isn't allowing me much "surf time". Couple that with no internet access at home still...and you get me! hahahaaa

Anyways...I'm just going to do cliffs notes for this since I'm very limited on time right now. Lunch is only 30 minutes and I've got some stuff I want to check out.

June 12 - Peanut purchased a one way airline ticket to Virgina for June 30th. This ticket, whom people probably assumed was round-trip, was my "vacation to visit my sister"...at least that's what everyone thought. It was really for me to go down there, help her pack, and then drive home on July 2nd so she could surprise everyone at the 4th of July party at my grandparents house. The only people that knew were Cletus and my mom. Let me tell you...that is one of the best kept secrets EVER!!!!! She had been out of the state for 12 years!!! And now she's back home for good!!!

June 27 - Cletus and I headed up to kinde to visit with his family. All the siblings and significant others were there with the niece, nephews, and dogs so it was a pretty full house! Let's see...8 adults, one teen, a toddler, a baby, and 2 dogs in one house. It was FUN!!! I love going up there, even when I have to sleep on the floor lol

June 30 - Got up at 4:30 am to catch my 7ish flight to VA which, for whatever reason, had a layover in Philadelphia. Get to VA, head to lunch with my sis and niece (who is ABSOLUTELY adorable I might add), and then I got to see the house for the first time! We packed some that night too.

July 1 - We got up, finished packing, picked up the trailer, emptied the storage unit and came back home. We emptied the trailer, then reloaded it with all the important stuff first. Well, we got an 8x10 (I think) storage unit and about half of a 1 car garage into a 6x12' trailer. Yes, we rock! A few random other things got taken care of too this day.

July 2 - Got up at 2:30 am (yes...2:30 in the morning-or really close to that). We were out on the road by 3, done at the weigh station and onto the expressway by 4ish. Yeah...we had 3,000 lbs or something like that, loaded in the trailer and truck combined...Off we went on the 15 hour ride home!

July 3 - Cletus and I headed back up to Kinde for the 4th of July parade. There were Model A's to be driven and Cletus was one of the pilots :-) We had lots of fun this weekend too!

July 4 - We were actually in the parade, got to see the MSU cheerleaders, and lots of cool cars, along with a woodchuck...hehee

July 5 - Headed to West Branch for the boat parade at my grandparents house. This is where my sis made her grand entrance! It was priceless. I will never forget the looks on everyones faces....

July 6 - Headed back home...

July 7 - Back to work :-( Bummer 'eh?? It was a very good 10 days if you ask me.

Hope you enjoyed the brief story!! :-)

~Peanut


"The most important trip you may take in life is meeting people halfway."
-Henry Boye

Saturday, July 19, 2008

Check it out!

Ok, so I suck at the daily updates right now.......Kinde, VA, West Branch, Kinde (and maybe I'll add Findlay to it too) will be coming this week!!

In the meantime, go check out this website. http://www.wyattwoodworks.net/ This is my brothers company and he does FANTASTIC work!!!

~Peanut


"The number one sign you have nothing to do at work: The 4th Division of Paperclips has overrun the Pushpin Infantry and General White-Out has called for a new skirmish."
-Fred Barling, "Humorscope"

Saturday, July 12, 2008

The Travelocity Story

Ok, I know you've all been patient in waiting for this story, and it is kinda long... Now, while you're reading, keep this one thing in mind. Travelocity has a guarantee that's plastered all over their website. It says "Everything about your trip will be right, or we'll make it right...Guaranteed." I'll do my best to keep it clean...here goes...

Back in April 2007, my mom and I bought plane tickets to go to Ireland. We were very, VERY excited about going. A couple weeks after purchasing the tickets, we mad a Thrifty rental car reservation through Travelocity also. The price quoted was 194 Euro for an automatic with a/c which wasn't bad at all! At that time it translated into roughly $300 for the week. Well, time went on, and before we knew it, it was October, and we were on a plane to Ireland. We were just going to hop city to city each day, sleep in a different city each night with no prearrangement except for our last night in Dublin so we were close to the airport.

Enter October 15th, 2007 (we actually left on the 14th...gotta love the International Date Line). We landed in Dublin and started looking for the Thrifty rental counter. Once we got there, we had a MAJOR case of sticker shock. The guy at the counter looked up the reservation and said something along the lines of 'Oh, that's not the right price at all. It's actually going to cost 327 Euro.' Ok...dollar for dollar comparison...$308 quoted, $520 actual. We were not prepared for that, so we went counter to counter and got quotes from all of the other rental places. None of them even came close unless we got a manual and not an automatic. Even then it was about 50-75 Euros more than we were quoted. We didn't know what to do. We couldn't afford the rental car, and now we're stuck in the Dublin airport with no where to go. Finally, we talked to someone that suggested using the bus system that they have. Fine...we had to use public transportation the whole week. Either that or be stuck at Dublin Airport the whole time. Granted, the bus system is pretty good, but we weren't able to do what we wanted to. Essentially, it ruined the trip for us. Just being there was really cool, but we had to rely on their time schedules. It sucked.

When we got back, I sent a message to Travelocity telling them what happened and requesting simply $200 credited back to my mom's credit card. I didn't think that would be too much to ask since the plane tickets cost almost $1200. Well, apparently, I was wrong...BIG TIME. I got no response from them from the first, I don't know, 10 emails that I sent them. Finally, I got 2 emails and a phone call from someone telling me that they had credited $100 or something because of the problem I had with Avis...HUH???? AVIS???? I didn't use Avis... They were calling me with someone else's resolution! By this time, I was thoroughly peeved as it had been about 4 months, and they couldn't even keep their records straight!

Ok...once they finally got that straightened out, I got a phone call that was actually about MY problem. Here it is, 5-5 1/2 months after my initial email, and someone was FINALLY contacting me about my problem and not someone else's. I was pretty excited because I had already faxed everything to them once (29 pages of emails among other things...) and thought that maybe they were going to resolve the issue. The girl that called me was Veronica, supervisor of consumer relations. She asked me some questions and I told her that I had already faxed everything about a month before. She said she hadn't seen them so I faxed them again the very next day. She told me to include the 'receipt' from the car rental place, and I told her that the price I had gotten from the guy at the Thrifty counter was hand written on the back of my reservation confirmation (at this point I don't even know how many times I had told her we couldn't rent the car and had to use public transportation). She called me back 2 days later saying she hadn't seen my fax yet...so I told her that it would be worth her while, and the company's while for her to get off her butt and go find it. We were going on 6 1/2 months by this time. I had been more than patient, and had waited more than long enough, I was getting pissed.

I sent another email or 2 over the next couple of weeks. One was to inform them that I had filed a complaint with the Better Business Bureau. On July 1, 2008 at 4:34 pm, I got another phone call from Veronica. I started the phone call the way I always do. Pleasant, and somewhat flexible aside from the fact that it's been so friggin long...needless to say, it didn't stay pleasant for very long. She said that based on the documents I provided (she apparently got them 2 weeks after I faxed them), they couldn't give us the $200 back onto my moms credit card, but they could give us a $200 voucher for later use on Travelocity.com. (Pardon my language) NO FUCKING WAY. Not with the way they've handled this situation...I told her that was unacceptable and that the $200 refund would be acceptable. She said "I can't do that based on the documentation you sent. You said you would fax me a receipt, and there's no receipt here." Ummm...No, I SPECIFICALLY told you it was HAND WRITTEN on the back of my reservation confirmation. She argued back and forth with me about what I told her and finally I said "I want to talk to your boss". She said "I can't forward your call" "Bullshit. I want to talk to your boss." "I can give you the email address, but they don't have a phone number." "WHAT???????? Whatever...so now, you're going to give me another email address, so I can wait another 8 months??? I don't think so. I want to talk to your boss." (Meanwhile, my sister is in the background cheering me on) Basically, we went back and forth like this for a few minutes, and just as I started to say 'fine, give me the email address', she hung up on me. SHE HUNG UP ON ME!!! Veronica, THE CONSUMER RELATIONS SUPERVISOR hung up on me!!! OOOOOOOHHHHH I'm getting ticked off again just thinking about it!!!

That was 11 days ago now...I will be updating the Better Business Bureau and contacting the Michigan Attorney General. I'm seriously contemplating taking them to small claims court to get the full cost of the tickets back (plus court fees) instead of just $200...We are officially in Month #9 of this fiasco, and the best they can do, is try to get me to use them again in the future.

**To anyone from Travelocity that might be reading this** I'll make you a deal...give me a full refund, and I'll use you again. Refund $200 to my mothers credit card and I'll consider it. It's called customer service - learn how it works - you guys suck at it.

To everyone else reading this...until further notice...DO NOT USE TRAVELOCITY.COM They have NO RIGHT being in business. Had I read reviews before booking our trip, I wouldn't have used them in the first place. Use Orbitz...they take care of their customers...or even Expedia - I haven't had any personal experience there, but at this point, I think anyone is better than Travelocity. $200 should be pocket change to a company this size, but apparently they don't really care about their customer base, nor do they uphold the guarantee that they plaster all over their website. I am not going to give up on this until I get AT LEAST $200 back from them...not in stupid vouchers either.

ARGH!.

~Peanut


"When you come to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on."
-Franklin D. Roosevelt

Wednesday, July 9, 2008

I'm Trying!!!

I know...I've promised an update...Sorry it's taking so long! I've been super busy at work this week. I should have the Kinde/VA/family trips and the whole Travelocity fiasco posted very soon. Please be patient.

Thank you,
Your future First Lady (if you're curious, look at Cletus' blog)

~Peanut


"Time is what prevents everything from happening at once."
-John Archibald Wheeler
The American Journal of Physics, 1978

Monday, July 7, 2008

DO NOT USE TRAVELOCITY.COM

Ok, an update will be coming shortly about my adventures with Cletus in Kinde, my trip to VA, and fun with my family on the 5th.

If you want to know the story about Travelocity before I post it, email me at peanutpublications @ yahoo.com. I would love to fill you all in!

~Peanut


“Justice may be blind, but she has very sophisticated listening devices.”
-Edgar Argo

Friday, June 27, 2008

Out of Commission

Well, not really...but I won't be updating very much over the next week or so. Cletus and I are heading north this weekend and next, and on Monday, I'm heading south to visit my sister!

~Peanut


"A vacation is like love - anticipated with pleasure, experienced with discomfort, and remembered with nostalgia."
-Author Unknown

Thursday, June 26, 2008

Lacking motivation...

So today, I had plenty to do to keep me busy. However…I have next to no motivation. I’ll only be at work for four hours tomorrow, and I think it’s already starting to mess with my mind!!! Oh well, I’ll get through it.

After work I’ll be heading to a florist to see what they have to offer. Then I’ll be heading out to the house! When Cletus gets home from work, we’ll be going to Kinde for the weekend! Yay!!!

Oh yeah…and the photographer said our pictures should be on the website tomorrow! I CAN’T WAIT to see how they turned out!

~Peanut


“Immorality: The morality of those who are having a better time.”
-H.L. Mencken

Wednesday, June 25, 2008

No, you are NOT disconnected...

Ok...since a few people have ruined the surfing life for the rest of the people at work, I'm forced to use either Wireless Oakland (when it decides to work, or even show up on my network list), or some random unsecured network when I go to lunch to check out myspace, ebay, whatever. Now, my laptop is "equipped" with Acer eNet Management which lets me know if the signal drops, I get disconnected or reconnected. I have a list of about 6 networks here at work, but I only use 2 (3 if W.O. is working). I have it set to NOT automatically connect to the "work" network because so many sites are blocked there. So, I'm using this random unsecure network-I know, I know...it's not safe-but this is literally the ONLY time I get. 30 minutes a day of 'unlimited' surfing. Still no internet access at the apt, but I can get online at the house which is only on weekends. Now on to my frustration...

Acer eNet Management tells me literally the SECOND I get disconnected. Usually, by the time I click on it to reconnect, it's already done it. It's so annoying and I'd say about 30% of the time I just want to yell at it "No, you are NOT disconnected!!!" It does this constantly...and the only reason I check it every single time is because 50% of the time, I actually did get booted and I have to reconnect completely...the other 20%...it seems like it's just freaking out. Anyways...not that anyone cares! lol

On another note...I haven't heard from the photographer telling me the pics are ready, nor the limo place, nor the church...looks like I'll be making some phone calls tomorrow...

Enjoy your day!

~Peanut


"One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life."
-Chinese Proverb

Monday, June 23, 2008

Heheheeheee....

Probably the only time I'll ever have these in my possession, but it's pretty cool!





~Peanut


"Never, never, never give up."
-Winston Churchill

Saturday, June 21, 2008

So...

I was sitting down to play Hot Shot's Golf 3 here at the house, when I looked down at the little piggy on my left foot...it's all bruised on the side again!!! Darn it!!! Kasia, you were right...that's what I get for trying to be a lady.

Good Night all...

~Peanut


"Man endures pain as an undeserved punishment; woman accepts it as a natural heritage.
-Author Unknown

Friday, June 20, 2008

Meltdowns...

So, I've come to the conclusion that not all meltdowns are bad. I had one yesterday...don't worry, I'm ok, nothing is really wrong anymore (that I know of), I was just freaking out about something that I have no control over. Here's a little bit of the story though.

My phone had a really bad habit of randomly turning off...well, it wasn't really random. If I got online with it, there was a chance that it would shut off, when I changed the volume setting, it might freeze on that screen, then shut off when I flipped it open again. It was super annoying and had been going on for quite a while. However, I knew my contract was expiring soon and I could get a new phone anyways, so I decided to wait it out. Now, I was heading out of work, and after a few eye opening conversations, and me forgetting some stuff, I was pretty frustrated. I got down to my car, realized I had forgotten a couple things and moved my car closer to the building so I wouldn't have to walk the length of a football field two more times. Went back upstairs to my desk, grabbed one of the two things and headed back out. When I got back to my car again, I realized that I had forgotten to grab one of the things I needed. At this point, I felt like crying, but didn't. Trust me, I was VERY frustrated at this point. I flipped open my phone to call my sister, and it turned off...so I chucked it at the dashboard. Great now I have no phone!!! I broke down, seriously. It sucked...I regained my composure enough to head back into the building, went into the sales department (cause I really didn't want to go back upstairs-and by this point I had completely forgotten about the second thing I wanted to grab), and I used the phone of one of the sales guys (thanks again). I called Cletus practically in tears still and told him he wouldn't be able to reach me on my cell phone for a couple of days. He asked why and I said "because it's in three fucking pieces in the floor of my car". Yeah, tears again. He's great though. He came over to my apartment, heard my story, gave me a big hug (which made me feel a lot better), and we headed to the Sprint store near me to get me a new phone. Well, we were planning on combining phone plans and just having one so we could save some money, and we wound up doing that last night too. So now, I have a new phone, and so does Cletus!

The really strange part for me is that I'm happy today, but I feel like I could break down and cry at any moment. Hopefully that doesn't happen, but we'll see what happens on the drive home today...

P.S. Cletus, I'm sorry...I think you know what I'm talking about. You're right...

HAPPY FRIDAY EVERYBODY!!!!!!!!!!!!!

~Peanut


"Get mad, then get over it."
-Colin Powell

Thursday, June 19, 2008

I need some relaxation!!!

Ok…I think I’m too excited for my own good! Last Wednesday, Cletus and I got our engagement pictures taken. The photographer told us it would be about 2 weeks until the proofs are up and available for review! YIPPEE!! Well, yesterday was one week down, and only one more week to go!!! Yay! On top of that, I get to go to Virginia to visit my sister! I haven’t seen the house that they live in yet, just pictures, and it’s been FOREVER since I’ve seen her hubby (don’t even know if he’ll be there…), and I can’t wait to see that adorable little girl that is my 6 year old niece! Trust me…she’s a DOLL! Also, my other sister came by my work this morning and brought all the little ones with her! Everyone in the office got a kick out of them. They’re all just so stinking cute!

Ok, on to the other stuff…I’ve been so exhausted for some reason lately. The only reason I can think of is that I’ve seemingly been go-go-go for quite a while. I spent 10 weeks doing 95% of two jobs-all of mine, and all but 2 aspects of the second job, and the graduation parties are in full swing. Over the last 2 weeks, the schedule has been insane.
6/10-I went to a PartyLite meeting in Clinton Township with my cousin because I was thinking about starting to sell again.
6/11-Engagement photo session.
6/12-Went to my moms house for dinner, visited for a little while, put on my wedding dress and picked between two pair of earrings to wear with it.
6/13-Honestly…I don’t remember if we had anything going on or not…
6/14-Cletus’ sister, hubby, and their two kids came by in the morning. We then all rode together to an open house for his cousin. After that, we surprised some friends at a housewarming party! Yes, we were invited, but I had said we probably wouldn’t make it.
6/15-Up at 8:30 or something to go to church. Then we went to a graduation party for my cousin.
6/18-I had a Dr. appointment in the morning, and we had our first “official” meeting with our marriage counselor guy.

Yeah…crazy couple of weeks!!! Tonight, I get to tackle cleaning up my apartment a little bit, and preparing for my three trips in 9 days! Yay!

~Peanut


"No excellent soul is exempt from a mixture of madness."
-Aristotle

Couldn't resist.....

There should be an actual update today, but I was "shopping" for new desktop background material and stumbled across this one...enjoy!



~Peanut


"You can't run away from trouble. There ain't no place that far."
-Uncle Remus

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

owie, OWie, OWIE!!!

So, a while back, I broke my littlest piggy (my pinkie toe). If you would believe it, I did it getting into the shower. I have shower doors, and I hit the tall part of the track with my little toe. It hurt really bad, and even though I never went to the doctor for it, I'm 99.9% sure it was broken.

Well, today I took a quick break and when I tried to cross my legs, my pinkie toe met the corner of the leg of the table I was sitting at. It hurt very very bad, and actually brought a little tear to my eyes. The toe is now swollen again..darn it!!! Oh well, I'll be ok...

~Peanut


"Man is the sole animal whose nudity offends his own companions, and the only one who, in his natural actions, withdraws and hides himself from his own kind."
-Montaigne

Friday, June 13, 2008

The necessity of electricity

Funny how much you rely on electricity. For example: Fridge, microwave, washer/dryer, water heater, stove, lights...among lots of other things. Cletus has been out of power since Sunday's lovely storm! Hopefully it will be back on tonight, and for the rest of this weekend!!

Tomorrow, we get to see his sister, brother in law, and 2 nephews (and one’s itty bitty!!!!), then we’re going to a graduation party for one of his cousins. Sunday will be church in the am, and a combo graduation/anniversary party in the afternoon! Should be good times!!!

Hope you all have a good weekend!!

~Peanut


"Patience is something you admire in the driver behind you and scorn in the one ahead."
-Mac McCleary

Wednesday, June 11, 2008

Just Plane Fun...

And I do mean plane, as in airplane. I was talking to a co-worker today telling stories about some of the times I’ve flown. I have some pretty scary stories!!

Story #1: I few out to California to visit my oldest sister and my niece about…oh…8 years ago probably. I flew by myself and I was already somewhat nervous. My return flight had a layover in Chicago. The flight from Chicago to Detroit is only about 45 minutes so I figured it wouldn’t be that big of a deal. Well…it was storming. If you don’t yet know my feelings on storms, look at the post from Monday. So anyways…we’re getting ready to take off from Chicago and the pilot comes on saying “We’ll be cruising at XX,XXX feet for a total of about 45 minutes. Unfortunately, we may experience some turbulence for the duration of the flight.” I thought it wouldn’t be a big deal. Boy, was I wrong!!! I had a window seat which just so happened to be behind the wing. I LOVE window seats by the way, except when it looks like the wings on the plane are flapping like birds wings…ok, so maybe it wasn’t that bad, and I’m not by any means a white knuckle flyer, but I didn’t let go of the armrests for the whole flight.

Story #2: Cancun – January 2007. The flight there was peachy. No turbulence, no delays, nothing. Even seeing the Gulf of Mexico below us was really cool. The fun part comes in when leaving Cancun…the plane was sitting waiting to get the ok to enter the runway. I looked out the window and noticed 2 airplanes coming in for a landing on the runway we were waiting for. No big deal right! Well, I watched the first one come in, heard it go by, then all of the sudden…wait…why are we moving??? There’s another plane coming in!!! Next thing I know there’s the very loud sound of jet engines directly above us. Yes, the second plane just landed right over top of us…

Story #3: My mom and I went to Ireland in October 2007. Let me just say the trip was FANTASTIC…aside from the fact that we couldn’t get a rental car…that’s a whole other subject though… Our tickets were scheduled Detroit-New York-Dublin, Dublin-Chicago-Detroit (yeah, explain that one…) I don’t remember exactly which flight this was, but I think it was coming into Chicago, a.k.a. the Windy City. It was windy alright!!! The plane was lurching and shifting and swaying like crazy on the approach. I was sitting in the window seat again, and I could see the landscape rising and lowering. Oh! There’s the ground, oh it’s gone again…etc. It was bad. The landing was no better by any means! I was honestly scared that the plane was going to flip over or something (far fetched I know). Left rear tire-touchdown. Left rear tire-back in the air. Right rear tire-touchdown. Right rear tire-in the air. Left rear tire-touchdown, right rear tire-touchdown, front tires-touchdown. Ok, it doesn’t sound so bad on paper, but the amount of “air” we were getting when the tires came back off the ground…UGH!!! I still remember how it felt in my stomach!!!

Now, the majority of the times that I fly, everything is a-ok. These are just the most entertaining stories I have. Hope you enjoyed them!

~Peanut


"Both optimists and pessimists contribute to our society. The optimist invents the airplane and the pessimist the parachute."
-Gil Stern

Tuesday, June 10, 2008

Why???

Why is it Tuesday and it feels like Wednesday again??? I think I might go crazy if this keeps up!

Anyways…Who watched the Belmont Stakes this past Saturday? I’m not a huge horse racing fan…honestly, I don’t remember the last time I watched a race before this year. I saw all 3 big races, and I was honestly bummed that Big Brown lost the Belmont. I, among many, many other people, had the opportunity to see history in the making, and he lost. Oh well…next time, right? Some people say the problem he was having with his hoof was to blame, some say his positioning, here:
http://sports.yahoo.com/rah/news;_ylt=AnYUY_IdnCkfhQw4QeDYZZ0X47kF?slug=ys-nydnbelmont060808&prov=yhoo&type=lgns,
and now people are trying to pin it on the jockey, here:
http://sports.yahoo.com/rah/news?slug=ap-bigbrown-dutrow&prov=ap&type=lgns.
Just for good measure…here’s another article… http://sports.yahoo.com/rah/news;_ylt=Aptcvde86uK5BN_ldxkct_sX47kF?slug=ap-belmontstakes&prov=ap&type=lgns.

Who knows what truly happened to Big Brown. We may never know! He did have great showings at the Kentucky Derby and the Preakness, though. Now, anyone that bid on Da’ Tara is probably sitting pretty!!!

~Peanut


"It is not enough for a man to know how to ride; he must know how to fall."
-Mexican Proverb

Monday, June 9, 2008

What an exciting weekend!

Saturday, Cletus and I went to one of my cousin's graduation parties. It was fun!! Got to see a lot of family, hung out for a while, and ate way too much good food! Best of luck to him and all the he pursues!!

Now on to the nerve racking exciting stuff...anyone that knows me, knows that I'm not a huge fan of storms. I'm ok if it's just raining, or even if there's a little thunder and lightning involved...but when the potential of violence gets involved...count me OUT! Yesterday, there was a very fast moving STRONG band of thunderstorms that moved through the neighborhood. Come to find out, a tornado actually touched down about 2.5 miles from the house...that's exactly the kind of violence I don't like! Cletus stepped outside when the storm started coming through. He was only outside for about 2 min and came back in saying "it's starting to rain". As fast as those words came out of his mouth, we were getting hammered by rain and super high winds. Again...with the violence thing. Now, when I say extremely high winds, I mean trees bending that shouldn't be etc. The fun part of it was watching the power lines behind our next door neighbors house (and 4 houses down for that matter) twist all together and arc like crazy...again with the violence thing. Cletus had just started dinner when the power went out and he still doesn't have any...it's been about 19 hours now. However, my apartment never lost power at all. There were trees down all over the place on my way home last night too....it was crazy. Now I'm going to try my hand at this fun photo posting thing so y'all can see what happened...oh, and I apologize for the blurriness...I was on my bike...

This one is about 5 houses down from us on the opposite side of the street...

Another about 5 houses down...

Gigantic tree in the next door neighbors yard...couldn't get a really good picture of it...

Here's a better one of that tree...

This one was in the front yard of the house directly behind us...I think...notice the roots pulled up on the left.

Don't remember exactly where this one was...


YAY!!

~Peanut


"I am sure it is a great mistake always to know enough to go in when it rains. One may keep snug and dry by such knowledge, but one misses a world of loveliness."
-Adeline Knapp

Friday, June 6, 2008

CBC might drop a couple of notches

I just saw that there’s a possibility that they might try to “silence” the Hockey Night in Canada theme (aka The Hockey Song). WHAT????
An excerpt from the story that is found here - http://sports.yahoo.com/nhl/news?slug=cp-nhl_hockey_night_theme&prov=cp&type=lgns: (yeah, I still don't have the whole linking thing down...)

Reports that the theme might be benched next year came when the agency that represents the song’s composer said Thursday that the CBC will no longer use the familiar hockey anthem.
But the head of CBC Sports says the song hasn’t been shelved yet.

“Our negotiations continue and if we can do a deal for the theme that’s reasonable for both sides, we’ll do it,” said CBC Sports executive director Scott Moore in an interview. “It’s a great theme. If we can’t, then we have an alternate direction that we’re excited about and that I think will create controversy and create excitement amongst Canadians.”

“But certainly our first choice would be to keep the theme as it is.”

The licence agreement CBC had with composer Dolores Claman ended with this year’s Stanley Cup playoffs, which wrapped up Wednesday night.


Interesting, but even I’m still bummed!!! And I don't even get to watch CBC that often!!! I hope they keep it, for the sake of the fans.

~Peanut




"A man is called selfish not for pursuing his own good, but for neglecting his neighbor's."
-Richard Whately

Is it REALLY Friday???

This week has been strange...

Monday felt like Tuesday.
Tuesday felt like Monday.
Wednesday felt like Thursday.
Thursday felt like Friday and I felt like I wasn't supposed to be at work.
Today actually feels like Friday, but I still don't fell like I'm actually supposed to be working...I'm all screwed up...

The parade was in Detroit this morning, and I really wanted to go, but didn't...yeah, I'm bummed...but there will be another one within the next couple of years if not next year!

I've decided that I'm going to **attempt** to do daily updates. It's going to depend on how busy I am at work...oh wait...I don't think that will be a problem... This weekend, more painting will be taking place at the house, along with a new floor in the upstairs bathroom. Also, a grad party on Saturday. Should be good times!!! Hopefully we don't get stormed on too bad...and hopefully the weather clears up for us by Wednesday. I was really looking forward to getting the engagement photos taken :-(

~Peanut


"You don't choose your family. They are God's gift to you, as you are to them."
-Desmond Tutu

Thursday, June 5, 2008

Stanley's Back!!!

That’s right! The Detroit Red Wings were victorious yet again last night in game 6 of the Stanley Cup finals!!! What a great game it was…I was literally on the edge of my couch with my hands clasped together for the last 2 minutes of the game. My heart was pounding, and I wound up holding my breath for about 15 seconds. Then…the possible game tying goal with about 2 seconds to go…ting! Hit the right upright and slipped right behind Osgood in front of the goal line…it didn’t go in!!!! YES!!!! WE WON!!!! It was a long, hard fought battle (especially game 5) but we won...and how sweet it is!!!

What a game…Great job guys!!! Keep it here in 2009 too!!!

~Peanut


"God gives every bird its food, but He does not throw it into its nest."
-J.G. Holland

Tuesday, June 3, 2008

It's A Sad, Sad Day...

…In Hockeytown. The Wings lost game 5 last night to the Penguins in triple overtime. They put up a helluva fight, but alas… Looks like my original prediction of Wings in 6 might come true! Stanley is on its way to Pittsburgh right now and hopefully, it will get raised tomorrow night by the great red and white!!!

Now on to my gripe. My brother and I see eye to eye on this, and maybe other people will agree. Why is it, that when you watch a hockey game on NBC, ESPN, ESPN2, or FSN they don’t broadcast the National Anthem? I’m ticked off enough that they don’t broadcast all of the games on local channels anymore, but having to rely on CBC – A CANADIAN channel – to actually hear the AMERICAN National Anthem …it’s just plain stupid. I don’t know about any of you, but I’m PROUD of the country I live in, even if the economy is going down the tubes! I am a huge hockey fan, but I don’t have cable (CBC doesn’t come in either), so I can’t watch 90% of the regular season games. I am grateful that NBC finally decided to pick up the playoffs starting with game 3, but please…broadcast the National Anthem!!! I watched game 2 with Cletus at the house on CBC, and I stood up for the Anthem…out of respect for my country. Maybe these local stations need to find their respect again, and show it with any of the sports contests they broadcast by playing this great country’s National Anthem.

GO WINGS!!!!!!

~Peanut


"Oh, say, can you see, by the dawn's early light,
What so proudly we hail'd at the twilight's last gleaming?
Whose broad stripes and bright stars, thro' the perilous fight,
O'er the ramparts we watch'd, were so gallantly streaming?
And the rockets' red glare, the bombs bursting in air,
Gave proof thro' the night that our flag was still there.
O say, does that star-spangled banner yet wave
O'er the land of the free and the home of the brave?"
-Francis Scott Key

Sunday, June 1, 2008

I Want Stanley! And Other Weekend Stuff...

Hello? Does anybody read this anymore? Don't be afraid to comment :-D

Today is Cletus's birthday! Yay! He's now 28 years young! Last night, we went to Muldoon's to get some drinks and watch the Wings play. It was a good night for the most part. The Wings ROCKED - beat the Penguins 2-1 oooooh yeah!! It's all going to end on Monday...game 5...at the Joe...in the D...right where Stanley BELONGS!!!

Ok, that's enough about that. Today, Cletus and I rode about 7 miles on the Clinton River Trail. It was fun times together. I'm tired, and ready for bed now, but it was worth it. We had burgers on the grill for dinner courtesy of...you guessed it...Cletus!

Good weekend :-)

~Peanut


"Until mountain biking came along, the bike scene was ruled by a small elite cadre of people who seemed allergic to enthusiasm."
-Jacquie Phelan

Tuesday, May 27, 2008

Happy Long Weekend!!!

Well ok, the weekend is over and the majority of us are back to work...and despite the not-so-good news we got on Friday, it was a very enjoyable long weekend!!!

Cletus and I left for Kinde Friday much later than we normally do. That was ok though because we didn't hit hardly any traffic!! We went to the bar for a bit Friday night, and I went to be around midnight...much past my usual bedtime!!! Saturday morning, I didn't get up until 8:30. That might not be sleeping in for some people, but it is for me! I'm up by 6:00 am each day. Anyways...we didn't do very much of anything on Saturday. Went to Cletus' grandma's house to check out some patio furniture, and to help move a dresser out of the house. After that we went to church, had dinner, and headed to the bar again. This time with a Red Wings game to be watched!!! WOOOOO HOOOO!!! We got robbed of the first goal, but the wings still won 4-0! YESSSSSSSSSSSSSS! Saturday night I went to be around 11:30 and slept til 9...oh yeah...that was nice! Sunday was again, a pretty lazy day. Cletus helped his dad cut up an old deep freezer, and later on in the afternoon, we played frisbee! It was so much fun...we're going to have to get a frisbee to keep at the house.

Then comes Monday. We were outside for a few hours, tearing down the pool in the back yard. That was an adventure in itself!!! We were getting swarmed by bees! Ok, it wasn't that bad, but at one time I counted 6 bees in the general vicinity of the pool...NOT cool...not to mention all the spiders that were discovered. EEEEEEW. A couple of them were pregnant too! Even worse!!! You can't try to step on them to kill them because baby spiders will run all over the place...it's disgusting, I've done it before and seen it happen...Then, the last spider I saw was huge. I'm not exaggerating when I say the "butt" of the spider was the size of my index fingernail. Gross, gross, gross, gross!!! The legs were stubby and short compared to most spiders I've seen, especially of this size, and the body was abnormally HUGE. I eek'd a little bit and called Cletus to come check it out. Meanwhile I'm saying things like "eew, gross, kill it" etc. Cletus came to the rescue and now, that dead spider resides in the spray part of the sprayer nozzle thingee which will probably get thrown away now! We were also able to get CBC on his tv (yeah, neither of us have cable, but he gets more stations than me), so we were able to watch the Red Wings hand the Penguins their second loss of the playoffs...another shut out no less...3-0!!! GO WINGS!!!

We both got a little sunburned this weekend, but oh well, it was worth it!

~Peanut


"The trouble with using experience as a guide is that the final exam often comes first and then the lesson."
-Author Unknown

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

The Lord works in mysterious ways…

This weekend was kind of rough…I’m not going to get into that though. Overall, it was good just a little bit of it was rough. Last night, The Simpson’s were on when I was getting ready to go to yoga. I had never seen this particular episode and found it just as entertaining as the others…then the end came. Ok…in this episode, Marge was proclaimed a hero for saving Lisa from an erupting volcano. They were all sitting on the couch when they showed this on the news and Bart said, “Wow, mom, I want to be just like you! Except for the saving Lisa part.” To which Homer replied (while grabbing Bart around the neck to strangle him) “Pretend to care!!!” What would this world be like if we all pretended to care…even if we knew we were right about something, or didn’t feel like we were wrong, or if someone’s dog was dying-even if you didn’t care? How much of a difference would it make??? And who knows…maybe we would all start to care…

Just the other day, I was at a PartyLite show at my sister’s house. I started thinking about becoming a consultant again so that if I decided to be a stay-at-home mom, I can still have some income to contribute to the family. Well, today, I got a phone call from my sister asking me what I’m doing tonight. My cousin, who is a PartyLite consultant, has a show scheduled in Davison, and there are supposed to be 12 people coming. I can TOTALLY understand her not wanting to reschedule or cancel, and I guess all of the people she would normally dove-tail shows to are either busy doing their own shows, or on the cruise that they all won. Well, it’s been a couple of years, but I decided to go ahead and do it for her. After all, this can help me decide whether or not to do it again for sure. Here’s the fun part…I want to sponsor someone this year for the RCIA program, Cletus and I are planning a wedding, I want to go back to school, and now let’s just throw this in the mix too!!

I know there’s a plan for me, and apparently, it doesn’t involve trickling things one at a time into my lap. Just dumping them all at once! Oh well, I can handle it…because He knows I can.

~Peanut


“I can forgive, but I cannot forget, is only another way of saying, I will not forgive. Forgiveness ought to be like a cancelled note - torn in two, and burned up, so that it never can be shown against one.”
-Henry Ward Beecher

Friday, May 9, 2008

I Got Bored...

So I changed some colors!!! They probably won't stay this way though...

~Peanut

P.S. This quote is for you Cletus...


"I will never let you fall. I'll stand up with you forever. I'll be there for you through it all, even if saving you sends me to heaven"
-The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus (Your Guardian Angel)

Wednesday, May 7, 2008

Time

Can it possibly go any faster? I don't feel like I can keep up. Cletus and I have been together 14 months now. It doesn't even feel like 5...he bought a house and is now moved in, we've been engaged for almost 7 months already, and the wedding is now only a year away...I just can't seem to wrap my mind around it!

I've now completed the RCIA program at church. We had our last "official" class last night, and will have one more time of recognition Sunday morning. That was one amazing experience that I wouldn't change for anything!!!

Ever had deja vu? Well, I take that as being exactly where you're meant to be in life. I've often wondered why it happens...but I like the reassurance. I know I'm only given what I can handle, and when I have that "haven't I done this before?" feeling - especially when I'm stressed out - I know I'll get through it and that everything will be fine.

Anyhoo...

~Peanut


"Certain thoughts are prayers. There are moments when, whatever be the attitude of the body, the soul is on its knees."
-Victor Hugo

Friday, May 2, 2008

Appliance Woes

Ok, so it's not so bad that it would actually be classified as a "woe", but it's rather entertaining, and kinda stunk when it happened...

Cletus and I went to a local 'Orange Box Store' competitor to buy some appliances. We needed a washer, dryer and refrigerator. No big deal right? Right. Well! We get there and start looking around. The washer and dryer were easy. We've had those picked out for about 2 weeks now. The fridge was a whole other story! The one that we really wanted was limited to the floor display, which they could have sold to us, but it was a little damaged, and well...we wanted new. Our second choice was $60 more than our first choice so we went with our 3rd choice only to find out that one too...was limited to the floor display. Back to choice #2. I talked to the sales guy, got him to come down on the price about $30...BONUS! We went to place the order, and the guy took an extra $28 off of the fridge, and the washer/dryer wound up about $60 less then we were expecting. On top of that, we had a 10% off coupon...oh yeah!!!

Fast forward to Thursday...I left work at 3:30 so I could be at the house to wait for the delivery, fully expecting them to show up at...oh...7:00. I literally had 25 minutes at the house before they showed up!!! Just enough time to clean the floor, boot up my laptop, and try to tap into the neighbors wireless connection. They got all the appliances unloaded and brought to the front door. Dryer in the house, hooked up and running...check. Washer in the house, hooked up and running...check. Now, back up a bit, back to when the dryer is being hooked up. Guy 1 comes in to say something to guy 2 who is in the process of hooking up the dryer. Guy 1 walks back outside. Guy 1 comes back in to talk to guy 2 again and guy 2 looks at me and says "You wouldn't happen to have a shop vac would you?" To which I responded "Um, no...why?" Guy 1 says "We have a bit of a situation outside." So I follow guy 1 outside to discover that, the one solid shelf that doesn't have drawers attached, is completely shattered. No damage to the outside of the fridge, no damage to the box...just a shattered shelf. Hmm...well guy 1 called the store and arranged for me to pick up a new shelf. Guy 1 was explaining the process of replacing said shelf and I said "Man, that was the beer shelf too!" And he replied "Damn, why did that one have to break?" It was funny!!!

This weekend...Cletus moves!!! It'll be fun.

~Peanut


"Every house where love abides
And friendship is a guest,
Is surely home, and home sweet home
For there the heart can rest."
-Henry Van Dyke

Thursday, May 1, 2008

Hooray for Homeownership!!!

Yep, that's right!!! Cletus is officially a homeowner! The papers were signed last week. We painted 3 rooms in the house last weekend, bought some appliances on Tuesday, and I'll be heading over there to wait for them to be delivered very shortly!!!

Yay!

~Peanut


"Experience is not what happens to a man; it is what a man does with what happens to him."
-Aldous Huxley

Friday, April 11, 2008

Yay Friday!!!

Going "North" with Cletus this weekend, last weekend was fantastic (more on that later), been crazy busy at work this week which made the time fly, went to Yoga on Monday and kickboxing last night...however...I've come to the conclusion that people that bruise easily should not be in any sort of contact sport. I loved it though!!!

~Peanut


"Life expectancy would grow by leaps and bounds if green vegetables smelled as good as bacon."
-Doug Larson

Thursday, April 3, 2008

Ben Stein's Final Column

For many years Ben Stein has written a biweekly column called 'Monday Night At Morton's.' (Morton's is a famous chain of Steakhouses known to be frequented by movie stars and famous people from around the globe.) Now, Ben is terminating the column to move on to other things in his life. ?Reading his final column is worth a few minutes of your time.

Ben Stein's Last Column...

How Can Someone Who Lives in Insane Luxury Be a Star in Today's World?

As I begin to write this, I 'slug' it, as we writers say, which means I put a heading on top of the document to identify it. This heading is 'eonlineFINAL,' and it gives me a shiver to write it. I have been doing this column for so long that I cannot even recall when I started. I loved writing this column so much for so long I came to believe it would never end.

It worked well for a long time, but gradually, my changing as a person and the world's change have overtaken it. On a small scale, Morton's, while better than ever, no longer attracts as many stars as it used to. It still brings in the rich people in droves and definitely some stars. I saw Samuel L. Jackson there a few days ago, and we had a nice visit, and right before that, I saw and had a splendid talk with Warren Beatty in an elevator, in which we agreed that Splendor in the Grass was a super movie. But Morton's is not the star galaxy it once was, though it probably will be again.

Beyond that, a bigger change has happened.? I no longer think Hollywood stars are terribly important. They are uniformly pleasant, friendly people, and they treat me better than I deserve to be treated. But a man or woman who makes a huge wage for memorizing lines and reciting them in front of a camera is no longer my idea of a shining star we should all look up to.

How can a man or woman who makes an eight-figure wage and lives in insane luxury really be a star in today's world, if by a 'star' we mean someone bright and powerful and attractive as a role model? Real stars are not riding around in the backs of limousines or in Porsches or getting trained in yoga or Pilates and eating only raw fruit while they have Vietnamese girls do their nails.

They can be interesting, nice people, but they are not heroes to me any longer. A real star is the soldier of the 4th Infantry Division who poked his head into a hole on a farm near Tikrit, Iraq. He could have been met by a bomb or a hail of AK-47 bullets. Instead, he faced an abject Saddam Hussein and the gratitude of all of the decent people of the world.

A real star is the U.S.soldier who was sent to disarm a bomb next to a road north of Baghdad. He approached it, and the bomb went off and killed him.

A real star, the kind who haunts my memory night and day, is the U.S. soldier in Baghdad who saw a little girl playing with a piece of unexploded ordnance on a street near where he was guarding a station. He pushed her aside and threw himself on it just as it exploded. He left a family desolate in California and a little girl alive in Baghdad.

The stars who deserve media attention are not the ones who have lavish weddings on TV but the ones who patrol the streets of Mosul even after two of their buddies were murdered and their bodies battered and stripped for the sin of trying to protect Iraqis from terrorists.

We put couples with incomes of $100 million a year on the covers of our magazines. The noncoms and officers who barely scrape by on military pay but stand on guard in Afghanistan and Iraq and on ships and in submarines and near the Arctic Circle are anonymous as they live and die.

I am no longer comfortable being a part of the system that has such poor values, and I do not want to perpetuate those values by pretending that who is eating at Morton's is a big subject.

There are plenty of other stars in the American firmament...the policemen and women who go off on patrol in South Central and have no idea if they will return alive; the orderlies and paramedics who bring in people who have been in terrible accidents and prepare them for surgery; the teachers and nurses who throw their whole spirits into caring for autistic children; the kind men and women who work in hospices and in cancer wards.

Think of each and every fireman who was running up the stairs at the World Trade Center as the towers began to collapse. Now you have my idea of a real hero.

I came to realize that life lived to help others is the only one that matters. This is my highest and best use as a human. I can put it another way. Years ago, I realized I could never be as great an actor as Olivier or as good a comic as Steve Martin...or Martin Mull or Fred Willard--or as good an economist as Samuelson or Friedman or as good a writer as Fitzgerald. Or even remotely close to any of them.

But I could be a devoted father to my son, husband to my wife and, above all, a good son to the parents who had done so much for me. This came to be my main task in life. I did it moderately well with my son, pretty well with my wife and well indeed with my parents (with my sister's help). I cared for and paid attention to them in their declining years. I stayed with my father as he got sick, went into extremis and then into a coma and then entered immortality with my sister and me reading him the Psalms.

This was the only point at which my life touched the lives of the soldiers in Iraq or the firefighters in New York. I came to realize that life lived to help others is the only one that matters and that it is my duty, in return for the lavish life God has devolved upon me, to help others He has placed in my path. This is my highest and best use as a human.

Faith is not believing that God can. It is knowing that God will.
By Ben Stein



I don't think that needs any additional comments. Thank you Ben Stein.

~Peanut